Experiences: Good Friends & a Misunderstanding

We learned and experienced many things during our stay in South Dakota. Some experiences were not easy, but showed me how much I needed to depend on God. We also made some treasured friendships. Again, I don’t have pictures to match the stories, but I’ll share others taken while we lived there.


Jamie and Sara loved looking at books and loved to be together. I had forgotten all about the cat we had, but you can see a glimpse of her in the picture.


We had become good friends with Glenn and Linda Letellier next door and Susan and Bob Lee across the way. Linda was Susan’s older sister. The Letelliers are the ones who made us feel so welcome that first night. You can read that story in Life in South Dakota: Part 1. Susan is the friend I wrote about last week in Fun Times: South Dakota Part 3Out of our many SD experiences, we appreciated their friendships the most.


Different Musical Tastes


Susan liked Andy Williams and Linda liked Roger Whitaker. They had been so kind to us we wanted to do something special for them.


So at Christmastime we surprised them with Christmas albums by those artists. It is one of our favorite experiences to remember.


This was the first time we had heard Roger Whitaker, but that Christmas album became a favorite for our family. It has been a tradition to play it every year in our home. Our kids always looked forward to it when it was time to open presents. In fact, they still enjoy it when we are together for Christmas.


Some Daily Experiences


Sara and Jamie loved drinking chocolate milk together.




They always brushed their teeth together.



False Accusation or Misunderstood


Since the school had students from different places in South Dakota, not all the board members lived close, so they had to come a distance for a board meeting. Some of the them were not so kind and accused us of not being hospitable.


Our neighbors were very surprised at the accusation, because they had taken time to get to know us and had experienced our hospitality.


Later we were told that it was our responsibility to know when the board members were coming so we could invite them into our home. We had no idea of that policy at the time.


Hurt, Anger then Peace


At first it hurt and made me angry, because I thought the board members should be reaching out to us since we were new to the area. I knew the anger was wrong, but I also knew that I would have a hard time getting rid of it. But then I prayed and asked God to please take it away.


Answers to prayer don’t always come quickly but this time it did. He took my anger away instantly and gave me a peace I could not manufacture on my own.



Psalm 34:13-15 (CSB)

Keep your tongue from evil
and your lips from deceitful speech.

Turn away from evil and do what is good;
seek peace and pursue it.

The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous,
and his ears are open to their cry for help.


South Dakota Experiences End


At the end of the school year the board advised the teachers to look for another job. They weren’t sure the school would be able to stay open the next year. They had not sold the cows yet, and they counted on that income.


Steve began searching for another teaching job. We also realized that the dry, windy climate was not good for us, as Sara and I developed respiratory problems. It turns out the school didn’t close after all, but Steve had already found a position at a Christian school back east in Cranford, New Jersey.


Come back next week to Tell a Memory Tuesday to hear about our experiences with yet another cross country move within a span of four years.


2 thoughts on “Experiences: Good Friends & a Misunderstanding

  1. Dear Gayl,
    What a blessing that the Lord poured over you as He gave you His peace in the midst of your hurt and anger! He is so good to hear us when we cry for help. Isn’t it interesting how the details of your move were put into place, and then the school ended up not closing after all? God knows how to direct us, and to keep us on His path, setting all those steps before us. Thank you for that reminder today, dear friend. It’s such a comfort to remember as we trust Him still, all these years later when our children are grown. Love and hugs to you!

    1. Dear Bettie,
      Yes, it really was instantaneous that the anger went away and peace took its place. I’m so glad He watches over and directs our steps. It is a comfort, knowing we can always trust Him, even if we don’t always understand. Love and hugs to you, to, my dear friend! xoxo

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